Magical Moments- with Music Props in Church Choir Rehearsal

Magical Moments- with Music Props in Church Choir Rehearsal

Now that we are in the New Year, it is time to begin afresh, and make some magical moments with those wonderful props you have from Bear Paw Creek. But, have you noticed there aren’t a lot of resources out there for church choral directors to draw upon when searching for music and movement activities?  

I did notice the lack of resources, and certainly very few mentions of activities for more mature adults as well. So I set out to create some new activities and share some resources with you Bear Paw Creek fans and church choir directors to maximize the props you have.

If you do not yet have the budget to purchase the high quality props the BPC has to offer, then I will give you some alternative ideas for until your funding comes through. In addition, if you are like Janet and I and enjoy being makers, I am providing ideas, instructions and resources for you to make away!  

Stretchy Band

Stretchy Band in Choir Rehearsal with All Ages

Where is the magic? 

Where is the magic I mentioned?  To me, the magic rushes in in the moment when I take out a prop and see the excitement and expectation on the faces of those young and old in my choir, wondering what I will suggest they do with the prop! Then, just as thrilling, seeing the concept I wanted to impart take hold so quickly because manipulating the prop engages those kinesthetic and tactile learners in my group.

 In this first of several blog posts on magical moments with music props in church choir rehearsal, I will provide you with activities using the stretchy band that will be just right for the church setting. There will be suggested church-appropriate activities for adults and children, recommendations on how to acquire a stretchy band for your rehearsal space on any budget and two ways to make your own stretchy band.

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Stretchy Band Activities that are fun and engaging!

Adults and/or Children-

Breathing Technique- Everyone breathe with the following motions- step back on the inhale and forward on the exhale, but never fully collapsing their ribcage by moving all the way to the middle, this creates a visual for good breathing technique.

Musical Learning- Adults and children together or separate, work together to make the stretchy band into note shapes and dynamic markings, this helps them to team build and work together.

Musical Form- Analyze the form of a current anthem or hymn using teamwork, by making a triangle as group for the A section, circle for B, square for C and so on.

Children-                                                                                                                                                                                                 Song Movements- Use the band for movements to songs such as: Michael Row the Boat Ashore, My God is So Big, Father Abraham, Zaccheus or Deep and Wide.

Highlight Individual’s Movements- Sing songs that highlight individual’s actions, for the larger group to imitate such as Did You Ever See a Lassie or Walking, Walking.

Fisherman Song- Use the chorus of the tune Blow the Man Down to create fishermen lyrics such as: Gather the net and pull in some fish in yea hey, like Peter did

Preschoolers- Stretchy bands can work on fundamentals like: high and low, soft/loud, up/down, in/out, colors and shapes through movement and visuals.

Putting away the stretchy band: Teacher “How big is Jesus’s heart?” The children stretch the band back and say “Sooo big!  and release. Or simply have everyone pull back and have everyone let go simultaneously, either way leaving the band in a nice, easy to pick up pile, and it is fun!

Easy Stretchy Band Clean-up

TIP: Be open to participants contributing lyric, movement or song ideas, as they are often good ones. 

 

HOW TO GET A STRETCHY BAND:

  • Big budget: You can purchase a high-quality stretchy band right here on this site from Bear Paw Creek.
  • Small budget: I made a thick and hearty homemade band of my own design for less than $20 and about two hours of work several years ago and it is still holding up well! See below for directions.
  • Tiny budget: The blog Education in Our World has an entry with a very frugal way to create a thin stretchy band of flexible size.

 

Two ways to make your own stretchy band

  1. Thick and Hearty

WHAT YOU NEED:

  • Fabric- colorful cotton/polyester blend or polyester cut lengthwise into 6 inch wide strips.
  • Fabric yardage- (using typical 44-45 inch width fabric) A few examples for stretchy bands intended for  different numbers of participants: 12 people= 1 ¼ yards, 20 people= 2 yards, 24 people= 2 1/3 yards. Formula for customization purposes can be found below.
  • 1 inch width elastic
  • Extra large safety pin
  • Sewing machine
  • Thread
    STEPS:
  • Calculate size based on maximum number of children or adults times 1 foot, which will give you the amount of elastic. Then double that number, which should give you the total length of the fabric strips you will need.

o   Formula for elastic:  Number of People x 1 foot= Elastic Needed*.

o   Formula for number of fabric strips: Elastic Needed x 2= total length of fabric strips needed.

o   Formula for fabric yardage required: Total Length of Fabric Strips x 12 = total number of inches required. Inches required divided by the fabric width of 43= total put into calculator at Quilter’s Paradise: Pieces to Yardage Area Calculator.

  • Cut the fabric into 6 inch wide lengths down the longest way of the fabric until you have strips adding up to the total length you calculated in the first step.
  • Turn two fabric strips so the right sides are facing each other, then sew the short ends together, repeat until all the pieces are one very long strip.
  • Fold completed long piece in half the long way, right sides together and sew about 1/2 inch from the edge creating a very long tube.
  • Turn the tube right side out, you will need to use a very large safety pin stuck through one end to aid you in this process.
  • Now comes the challenge- threading 1 inch elastic with the big safety pin in the end through the entire length.
  • Finally, sew the two ends of the elastic, overlap by an inch and stitch in a box shape and then in and x over the center of the box. *If the elastic length you require can only be achieved by purchasing two packages of elastic, then you will use the above process to attach the two ends of elastic together to make a larger size.
  • Fold under unfinished edges and sew completed stretchy band closed.

TIPS:

  • Enlist the sewing skills of an adult choir member or a child chorister parent or grandparent.
  • Go big, you can always tie a knot in the finished stretchy band to shrink the size if necessary.
  • Always double stitch everything if you want it to last.
  • If you are savvy, you can make this style for about $15 in a large to extra-large size. Look in the clearance fabric for steep discounts.
  • If your band is one color or pattern, tie scarves or ribbons every 12 inches to the stretchy band in order to be able to call out choristers by color for activities
  1. Thin and Flexi

WHAT YOU NEED:

  • 1 bag of nylon potholder loops

STEPS:

  • Can be found on the blog Education in Our World when you go to Mrs. Toben’s entry  “Games and Movement Band” where she explains how to make a thin, flexible band in five minutes for about $5 worth of spandex potholder loops.

TIPS:

  • You can easily adjust the size for each group
  • Create sections of a particular color so you can call colors being held for people to switch places etc.

I hope that these ideas are helpful to you in your upcoming rehearsals!  Let me know if you have any questions or comments below or you can email me at [email protected] Check out my next blog on Magical Moments for more activities.

Leah Murthy is a music educator, performer and military spouse. She has a Master’s in Music Education from The Boston Conservatory at Berkelee, 14 years experience teaching music and recent contributions to professional journals such as The American Organist and The Chorister. When she is not teaching music in Maryland, or playing with her two little girls, she is in Washington D.C. conducting for The National Children’s Chorus.

Summer Activities for Kids

A few ideas for when life slows down a bit.

 

 

A few great things to do away and at home with your kids… for when they ask to get on the computer, iPads, WII, Xbox… Well, you know…

Nothing wrong with extra time to enjoy their electronics during the summer, but here’s a list of alternatives to “gaming” their summer away.

The ebb and flow of summertime.

This morning, I enjoyed coffee with my dad as we chatted with my six-year-old.

We listened to her account of a nightmare about spiders, followed by ther dream of giant pink bugs. We speculated on the relative scariness of bugs that are huge, even if they are a shade of pink… It was good to just sit and talk and laugh a little with the morning cheer shining through the window.

Just two and a half weeks into June and we’ve already enjoyed: 1) A family reunion, 2. Two summer camps, 3. Family visiting in our home, and 4. A wedding weekend out of town. For the next few days, we’ve got the pleasure of having my dad here. Then we’ll finish out with another summer camp (for my younger kids this time). What a fun whirlwind – talk about a full month with many precious memories made!

The remainder of my calendar for this summer looks pretty empty, with enough time to be a bit more leisurely. There’s plenty of space to enjoy more coffee and conversation in the morning. I’ll have room in my days for contemplation. We won’t have places to rush off to and  I’ll have no piles of post-camp-laundry to catch up on. Our pace will slow down.

As my kids adjust to having greater ammounts of free time, I want to make sure those days aren’t all filled up with screen time . I’ve been strategizing about mostly “unplugged” activities we can enjoy. When my kids are asking to be on the computer all day, I’ll be ready with these ideas.

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A list of activities to enjoy with kids this summer:

Berry picking and peach harvesting.

We have so many orchards and berry farms around us. I missed the strawberry picking season (busy!), but this week is the perfect time for picking blueberries around here. For information about farms and orchards near you, go to this website: pickyourown.org.

To extend the fun, you can also read the classic, Blueberries for Sal, by Robert McCloskey while you eat your fresh berries over ice cream.

Journaling to inspire the love of writing and build confidence.

My husband and I sell used books on Amazon and occasionally I snag one from the “sell” pile if I fall in love with it.

The book, In the Company of Children, by Joanne Hindley, falls into that category. This is a warm, friendly book which helps you and your reluctant writer get past the paralysis of the blank page. It is not only a “how-to” book on journaling but also a “why” for motivation. She’s encouraging and injects a sense of community into the writing process.

I’m looking forward to bringing this into our family and seeing what it does for our family. I can see the influence of this book reaching into the adult years of my children, enhancing their grasp of good communication and their enjoyment of it as well.

Planning for when it’s too hot or rainy outside:

Watching this series on YouTube

Last year I studied Geography with my kids and about three months ago we stumbled across this channel Geography Now, created by Paul Barbato, pretty much from the first video we were hooked. He uses humor, and great visuals to make all the countries you’re a bit unclear about memorable. I want my kids to have a working knowledge of the world and it’s people. That’s a pretty tall order but this channel is a great starting point for both. For an overview, take a look at this:

Create a cooking lesson for your kids.

Whether you create your own (using favorite recipes) or use a monthly kit like Radishkids.com, summertime has the best opportunities to find pockets of time for cooking with your kids.

I know it’s kind of scary for some of us, but it really is worth the time and the mess to do this with your kids. The key is: Don’t do try cooking lessons with your kids when you’re in a hurry. Seriously, a four-hour block of time will make you much more relaxed about the process and cleanup! Maybe you only do this a couple of times this summer, but that’s okay!

Resources from Bear Paw Creek

Bean Bags.

I’ve got a set of bean bags from Bear Paw Creek, which my kids love. They are great for tossing inside (or outside) into bowls, knocking over empty bottles, for practicing juggling (Yeah, still working on that one.) and with an oversized checkerboard (squares painted or drawn on a sheet or fabric).

We use them at church as a way to get busy bodies moving before or after the lesson. Every Sunday (I’m not exaggerating. EVERY Sunday!) the kids ask to get the bean bags out. These are a great tool for every parent to have in their Summertime Boredom Toolbox.

Stretchy Bands in Circle Time.

Another great tool to pull out when you prefer to be inside is the Connect-a-Stretchy Band. These stretchy bands can be used for Circle Time each morning.

What is Circle Time you ask? Here’s an example from a mom at home: Creating a Circle Time in Your Home, by Jamie Martin on Simple Homeschool gives an overview and links to her vlog so you can see them in action.

Below is an example of a singing and movement Circle Time using a stretchy band from Bear Paw Creek (with plenty of giggles included):

If you want more tips and ideas on doing Circle Time take a look at this recent post by Carol Stephens of Macaroni Soup. She gives very practical tips and has great songs to use on her website.

If you want to know the “why” of using the stretchy band during Circle time, take a look at this post, by Allysa Wilkins of Dynamic Lynks, to understand the benefits the stretchy with your kids.

Summer Snowball Fight!

Have you heard of the Instant Snowball Fight? 

It’s great for winter fun when you live somewhere that doesn’t get snow and it’s great for the summer! This is an activity you can do inside, outside, in the pool, at a lake, really, anywhere. 

Snowball Movement Prop Set+ Kids = Indoor Snowball Fight

Don’t even get me started on the scarves and ribbons!

 

Have you seen what kids do when you get dancing scarves and ribbons in their hands? Whether dancing on the lawn, or in your front room, your kids will have a blast! Take a look at the resources I have listed in Ribbons Dancing and Scarves, Oh My!

I hope your summer is filled with fun. That it has a good ebb and flow of activities and rest.

Be sure to check out all of the movement props that Bear Paw Creek carries. Be prepared with these low-tech, high-fun ways for your kids to interact and play. Be prepared when your child says, “Can I play on the computer?” for the 50th time in a row. 😉

 

Jenette is a freelance writer of web content, blogs, and podcast show notes. She is also a wife and imperfect mother, whose family mean the world to her. She’s looking forward to July, when you’ll find her carving out time for all of this fun stuff and more. Jenette’s business website is at www.mywordsforhire.com.

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What Does a Music Therapist Do Anyway?

Learning about music therapy.

 

 

When I was in high school, I remember one person saying she was interested in going into Music Therapy. I also remember thinking, that’s a thing? It seemed like something pretty neat, but I had no context for it.  

 For many years that has been the case with the majority of people, but thankfully that is changing. 

Music and emotions.

I’m going to talk to you about music from a layperson’s perspective here.

Let’s not make it complicated, we all know that music impacts us, don’t we? That’s why we put on certain kinds of music when we need motivation to work hard physically (whether it’s on the basketball court or mopping the floor). Melancholy music suits us when we have a broken heart. Joyful music is used in all kinds of celebration. Orchestral music, while it doesn’t have a literal story line often tells of a mood that we can collectively agree on. Composer John Williams is well known for writing the theme music which carried us along in our favorite films.

We know this, we know that somehow music gets into us and the effect runs deep.

Music therapists study the scientific components of what happens emotionally and neurologically to a person when music is played, then uses that knowledge to integrate music in therapy. More study is being done on the effects on the brain and development of children when music combined with music are a routine part of their lives. The possibility that music aids in healing is being explored as music is brought into hospitals for children, babies and older patients. Children and young persons with autism are benefitting from therapy involving music, often one on one with a therapist. And there is some exploration of bringing music therapy into schools.

So much has been gained in the area of research, but I hope to see it continue so that more people can benefit from music therapy.

It seems to me that music therapists, while relatively new in profession, bring to the table one of the oldest friends of mental and emotional health, making it accessible to those who need it most. You see, those who are very young, very old, physically or mentally sick often don’t have access to music the way we do. 

If a teen with a broken heart can find a little comfort in the rhythm and words of this song by going to Youtube and dancing to something like this. Dancing in itself can be soothing. But the key thing is having that access.

When I was going through a really devastating and depressing year I listened to these songs over and over. Medicine for my soul indeed!

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One of the problems is that not everyone has access to music.

The residents in elder care depend on family, friends and recreation directors to bring music into their lives. Without them, the lives of many elderly in eldercare facilities wouldn’t have the music they love. And it’s important to have the music they love, not only for their emotional wellbeing, but also for mental stimulation that good memories bring.

Research in music therapy helps professionals who work with aging persons know what a difference music in their lives makes. I think it would be wonderful if each nursing home had a music therapist either on staff or hired to work with the recreational activity director.

How about in our schools? How about in conjunction with children who have anxiety? Or how about just to break the ice so all of the kids feel more connected to each other. I hope the trend for more and more research and more music therapists in each town and city continues. And it is, read this article to see it from one music therapists perspective as she sees her profession become more understood and recognized: And What Exactly is That Anyway?

 

Would you like to learn more about music therapy?

Here are some links for you to explore if you would like to know more about what music therapy is, what is does and the research that is ongoing with music therapy:

About music therapy:

http://www.musictherapy.org/about/musictherapy/

Music therapy in hospitals:

http://www.musicasmedicine.com/about/mtinhospitals.cfm

http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/healing-with-music-therapy#1

Music therapy in schools:

http://mtp.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2015/04/14/mtp.miv012.extract

http://www.musictherapy.org/assets/1/7/MT_Music_Ed_2006.pdf

http://www.coastmusictherapy.com/our-services/in-school-programs/

Music therapy in eldercare:

http://www.ascseniorcare.com/music-therapy-seniors/

https://www.longtermsol.com/benefits-of-music-therapy-for-seniorsblog/

http://www.caringheartsofrochester.com/the-benefits-of-music-therapy-for-the-elderly/

Now it’s your turn, help spread the word about music therapy and its benefits!

http://sessioncafe.com/lets-flourish/

You can read this very personal post from Janet, founder of Bear Paw Creek, about the therapy her daughter received while fighting cancer:

Fighting cancer and music therapy

Comment below and tell us what songs lift you or soothe you. Do you have a favorite song or style? I bet you can still a song you learned when you were little… ahh the power of music.

Afte that, would you please share this post and others like it, so that we can start to get the word out and help people understand what music therapy is and what it’s potential is for future therapy? Thank you! 

 

Jenette is a freelance writer of web content, blogs, and podcast show notes. She is also a wife and imperfect mother, whose family mean the world to her. She has a high respect for business owners and entrepreneurs of all kinds. She enjoys helping them tell their story, connecting them to customers online.

You can find Jenette’s business website at www.mywordsforhire.com.

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Down Syndrome Awareness Month

Celebrating Persons of Worth, Part 2

Are you aware of the beauty that enters the world when a baby with Down Syndrome is born?

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

In this series, which Janet and I put together for Bear Paw Creek, we have three goals:

  1. To appreciate the wonderful people in our lives who have Down Syndrome.
  2. To encourage family members who love people who have Down Syndrome. 
  3. To replace society’s fear of Down Syndrome with knowledge about and respect for people who are born with it.

This is part two of that series.

Down Syndrome Awareness

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What determines the worth of a person? 

Is it what a person has accomplished?

Is it how that person makes us feel or what he does for us?

By all of these measures, people born with Down Syndrome are people of worth.

In this second part of our series to celebrate people with Down Syndrome, we asked two moms of children born with Down Syndrome to share their hearts with you.

We don’t ask this lightly, but both Gloria Hsu and Joy Racicot have graciously agreed to give you a glimpse into their hearts and lives.

I knew Gloria Hsu when I was in high school and she was in elementary school. She had a different last name then. 😉 Our parents were friends and I babysat Gloria and her three sisters. They were a fun bunch, good memories! 

Fast forward a three decades… I remember reconnecting with Gloria and her family, then receiving the news that Russel had Down Syndrome. Since then, I’ve seen pictures of this bubbling bright boy and their loving family as he’s grown the last three years. It always gives me joy to see her pictures posted online and I’ll take all the joy I can get!

But joy isn’t all there is, there are tears too.

I want to let Gloria share an excerpt from her journal with you. It’s an exceptional privilege when someone will let you enter into their innermost thoughts like this.

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A “Tiny” Piece of Heaven, by Gloria Hsu

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Journal entry August 25, 2016 [Edited by Gloria Hsu]

Today a friend told me that her aunt, who had passed away several years ago, had Down Syndrome. As Trish started to share her aunt’s story, I could feel the strange mix of emotions that so often unexpectedly emerge on this journey with our three-year-old son, Russell, who has Down Syndrome.  Hope, joy, grief, love, mystery, connectedness to God. After her aunt passed away, Trish asked God for a sign that her Aunt Lori was okay. She had a dream in which her aunt was in heaven, and noted that she looked so beautiful. I urgently interrupted to ask the question that immediately came to my mind.  “Did she look like she had Down Syndrome?”  Trish smiled and said, “She looked like her, but she did not have Down Syndrome.”  Tears streamed down my face. I couldn’t be sure why I was crying.  

I cried again sharing the dream with my husband, Clive.  Later, I went into the kitchen and asked God out loud, “Why am I crying?”  My emotions took me back to when Russell was first born and then, at two weeks old, diagnosed with Down Syndrome. The memories came flooding back of me looking down at him and thinking that there was supposed to be another Russell without Down Syndrome, a Russell that I would never know. Tears would stream back then, too; grief and joy constant companions. In Heaven, we will know Russell without Down Syndrome, but he will still be him.  It makes me feel conflicted because Russell with Down Syndrome IS Russell and he is a true gift.  It’s so hard to put into words. Had I thought that Russell would have Down Syndrome in heaven? I hadn’t really processed it yet.

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Down Syndrome on earth is a gift.  It’s extra in a person. It’s a world-changer.  It’s a freedom to just BE.   Heaven doesn’t need people with an extra chromosome.  But Earth does. I remember talking to my dad about orphans with Down Syndrome the summer before Russell was born.  He said that he imagines that we will all get to heaven and discover that we had it all backwards, that those of us without Down Syndrome were actually the ones with special needs. Now that we have Russell, this suspicion is even more confirmed in my mind.  The world needs more Russells – reflections of pure love, of innocence in a world full of striving, anger, hate, hopelessness, and shame. Russell’s Down Syndrome on earth is a gift to us and to the world that isn’t needed in heaven, where there will finally be true innocence, joy, and love, with no more striving.

 

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In Heaven, Russell will also be free to live to his fullest potential and ability, where here he has limitations. We didn’t know at what age he would take his first steps, or be able to run. We don’t know for sure that he will ever be able to speak clearly, get married, or go to college; yet witnessing the path that he is on now at just three years old, we are sure nothing will stop him! We ALL have limitations. Even our love on earth has limits. But Russell’s love has no limits, no filter, no judgment—it’s pure—and given freely to everyone.  Even when his exuberant waves of hello are so often unreturned, unacknowledged, or unnoticed, he never stops giving those waves freely and lovingly. He is amazing.  I can’t believe that we get him.  [journal entry ends]

 

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Many want to get down to the nitty-gritty theology of chromosomal abnormalities, whether God made them or allowed them, and if they are a result of a sinful, broken world. These are hard, natural questions. But only God knows the true and final answers.  He exceedingly responded to our hearts’ cries and our human wrestlings for answers soon after Russell was born.  While we were waiting the ten days to find out if our son had Down Syndrome, the following verse pierced my heart, and I wept as I read it on my balcony that night:  Isaiah 41:20, “so that people may see and know, may consider and understand, that the hand of the Lord has done this, that the Holy One of Israel has created it.”

If you would like to read the story of how God miraculously prepared Gloria and her husband for the birth of their son with Down Syndrome, you can read it at www.lifeisamist.wordpress.com.

 

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Gloria Hsu lives with her husband, Clive, and their 4 boys, on the island of Taiwan, a country of 23,000,000 people, that has one of the highest abortion rates in the world. Almost 100% of babies diagnosed with Down Syndrome in utero are aborted. The year Russell was born, there were only 14 people born with Down Syndrome on the entire island. God prepared the way for Gloria and a friend to open a crisis pregnancy center in the city of Taichung, even before Gloria knew Russell would be her son. You can learn more about their ministry on their Facebook page Pregnancy Support Center-PSC or their website at www.pregnancysupport.tw. Gloria would love to hear from you at [email protected]

 

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Meet Deon and Tim.

Take the time watch the videos below so you can meet Deon and Tim and hear them talk about their lives and what they’re excited about. Notice the pride and love which pours from their friends and family when they speak of them these young men. You’ll be inspired and encouraged. These young men aren’t alone. All across the world are men and women with Down Syndrome who are like to learn, work hard, and want to be a part of caring for those around them.

Back to the question of worth.

While people with Down Syndrome are great people and able to contribute to our lives in a way that’s meaningful, I contend their worth doesn’t come from those factors, but from a place more intrinsic.

We need to agree that all people are worth our love regardless of the pain or effort their lives draw out of them and us.

I’d like you to meet another mom who has walked this road with her children and has encouragement to give. Joy Racicot is the second mom whom Janet invited to share regarding Down Syndrome. Our friend Joy wrote a post called In the Image of God and posted it on her blog www.beanpostfarmstead.com. She was excited to let us share the link to her post with you. Her writing is  honest about the fears and struggles, yet she encourages us to understand that the worth of a person comes from their Creator. 

It seems to me that suffering, pain, and sorrow are not the enemy of love and joy. Love and joy shine in the most trying times; they wither in the presence of  fear. That’s why I propose that we all learn to be courageous, realizing that life is hard, but that we and our children can face what’s ahead by God’s grace and by giving each other grace.

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Links to more stories and information about Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

Please join us in celebrating Down Syndrome Awareness Month. Below are more links for information and more inspiring stories. I hope you them and share them with others:

In an age where the media discusses the dangers and merits of designer babies, where does that put people who are born with an extra chromosome? It puts them exactly where they have always been, as precious people of worth in our families and in society. Mothers and fathers, whose babies are diagnosed with Down Syndrome en utero, often feel pressured to abort them and they may be filled with fear for the future (The exact numbers of babies aborted because of a Down Syndrome Diagnoses are unknown, but this article sheds some light on the numbers www.lifeissues.org.)

Down Syndrome Awareness Month is an opportunity for us to remind each other of the potential of each baby born with Down Syndrome and to bring hope and courage to the fight against fear. Let’s not miss the joy that a child can bring into this world or rob them of the chance to live up to their own potential whether or not he or she has Down Syndrome.

Let’s break down fear, and draw back the curtain on how much people with Down Syndrome contribute to our lives and our culture! 

 

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Down Syndrome Awareness Month

Celebrating Persons of Worth: Part 1

Are you aware of the beauty that enters the world when a baby with Down Syndrome is born?

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

In this series, which Janet and I put together for Bear Paw Creek, we have three goals:

  1. To appreciate the wonderful people in our lives who have Down Syndrome.
  2. To encourage family members who love people who have Down Syndrome. 
  3. To replace society’s fear of Down Syndrome with knowledge about and respect for people who are born with it.

This is part one of that series.

 

How do you measure the worth of a person?

Two years ago, I told my friend Jackie O’Connor that my perspective of beauty, and a life well lived, was changing. Jackie then began sharing with me about her Aunt Shirley. As she spoke of her Aunt, who was born with Down Syndrome, tears came into her eyes and her voice was filled with love and affection. Fast forward to last week, as I told Jackie how excited I was to be writing a post for Bear Paw Creek about Down Syndrome Awareness Month. Jackie spoke again to me of her Aunt Shirley, and again, the tears came.

I knew in that moment that I wanted Jackie to write about her Aunt Shirley for this post.

A great way to celebrate Down Syndrome Awareness Month, this October, is by celebrating the people we admire and love who have Down Syndrome.  So you’ll get to read about Jackie’s Aunt Shirley this week. Next week, you’ll get to read about a wonderful boy named Russel. And if you missed Janet’s message about her nephew, Brandon, I’ll be linking to that as well. Lastly I’ll be pointing you to another blog written by our friend Joy, with a message about raising children with Down Syndrome.

Now, I hope you enjoy reading about Jackie’s Aunt Shirley as much as I have.

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Shirley, by Jackie O’Connor

When I remember my Aunt Shirley, I remember her laugh.

When Shirley laughed, everyone around her laughed as well. She seemed to spend her life laughing;I mean real laughing. Eyes scrunched up, can’t catch your breath, belly laughing. You can’t help but laugh along with that.

Shirley went to be with the Lord 12 years ago.  I miss her, but I hold my love for her close.

Remembering her fills my heart. I remember her sweet smile. I remember her silliness in things like how she would encourage me, saying that someday I would be “tall like her”, even after I outgrew her tiny five-foot frame.  She honestly couldn’t see that I was a head taller than her. Remembering Shirley brings a smile to my face and joy to my heart, just like every moment I was blessed to spend with her in this life.

I remember how she was a creature of habit. Once Shirley learned something she did it forever. In school she learned about the dangers of electrical appliances causing fires, so she spent the rest of her life unplugging things. I remember my grandmother, time and time again, trying to use her mixer, or can opener, or even a lamp, only to find that it was unplugged.

I remember how Shirley loved to paint her nails. She wasn’t particularly dexterous, which meant that nail polish became finger polish, but she kept her nails painted, because to her it was pretty, and why else would you paint your nails? She also always wore a watch. She couldn’t tell time, but that didn’t matter.  If you asked her what time it was, she would look at her watch and say “5:30 after 6:00”. She didn’t quite understand time, but it didn’t matter.  We loved to ask her. Not too many times, because that would feel like we were making fun of her; just now and then, so we could smile at how cute she was.

I remember things like Shirley always having gum and how she would use that gum as a way to get us kids to behave. If the gum wasn’t working she would tell us “mama said” or “daddy said” and if all that failed, she would pull out the Bible and “read” (she couldn’t read) where it commanded whatever behavior she was trying to elicit.

I remember how Shirley loved. So purely. She loved the Lord, simply, and without question. She also loved singing with Elvis Presley. Oh, how I long to hear her sing again. She never knew the words, never stayed anywhere near the tune, but she would sing from her heart, and I sure miss hearing it.

Shirley was stubborn and unrelenting, she was joyful and fun, she was innocent, she was beautiful, she was as close to perfect as I’ve ever seen.

Celebrating Down Syndrome Awareness Aunt Shirley

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Jackie O’Connor is one of the most caring and optimistic friends I have. I suspect her Aunt Shirley had something to do with that. Jackie grew up in Napa, California and now lives in Missouri with her husband, children with lots of extended family nearby. She fills her home with love, grace, and beauty.

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Links to more stories and information about Down Syndrome Awareness Month.

In an age where the media discusses the dangers and merits of designer babies, where does that put people who are born with an extra chromosome? It puts them exactly where they have always been, as precious people of worth in our families and in society. Down Syndrome Awareness Month is an opportunity for us to remind each other of that.

Let’s break down fear, and draw back the curtain on how much people with Down Syndrome contribute to our lives and our culture.

 

 

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